Ker Chea's Wedding

21 March 2009 marked the day Ker Chea transit to another phase in her life, becoming someone's wife =) 

Cooincidently my colleague Khen wedding falls on the same day and i have to skip his dinner, sorry ya. Congrat to you too.

I'm quite excited too because she is actually one of the closes (non-relative) person that i knew getting married. Since she is my girlfriend's elder sister, i'm quite familiar with the environment and day to day activities of their family. Knowing after today things might change a lot, it give me strange feeling and i'm wondering if anyone in the family can get use to it or not.

The bridegroom will reach bridesmaid house around 7:15am and i suppose to reach there before that or i'll get locked outside together with the groom's "heng dai", unfortunately i woke up at 7:00 and got there after they arrived.... o.O it doesn't matter anyway, it's ok to be at outside. I can take some pictures up close =P

So the game begins with these womans at the frontline.

The PINK team!

Khong Wah "Heng Dai" (with his size i think he can wallop all the games himself)

Lining up to start.

First game, some wasabi cookie.

Everyone must eat!

Some "drinks" is prepared for the guys after eating the cookies (look at the guy face expression after drinking it! got to be nasty!).

Second, eat something that looked like poo served in diapers (holy shit!).

Got to take this. This is one delicious roasted pig!

Third, stick i love KC using angpow.

This is a good one (glad i'm not one of them).

Write i love KC on to the disposable diapers wore by the "heng dai".

Ha ha ha...... this is it lah....

This is going to haunt them for longgg time.

Fourth is pole dancing.

They're actually quite good for a first timer.



The last one before entering the house. Pick up the correct house key by mouth.

Those people guarding the gate.

I think this guy is one of the groom closest friend. He takes most of the challenges from the girls.

Finally got inside. Start the tea serving ceremony.

New family photo.

So... it's complete at the bride's side. Now is the groom turn. According to "kat si" hey have to leave the bride's house at 9am and enter groom's house at 11am. They need to travel from Cheras to Kota Kemuning. So they ended up drive slowly on the highway since they have a lot of time to spare and causing traffic jam along the kesas highway! geezz ... now i know why KL traffic jam all the time. 

11am. Reached.

Me and KP at the groom house.

Ker Shing and Stanly (next on list, end of this year).

Tea serving ceremony to Khong Wah parents.

Bride suppose to return the head and tail to groom. So here's it.

Eddie and Ker Ching.

Buffet time!

The porch.

The wedding reception. (due to the late arrival of kp, i need to become the reception first without knowing who are the guests =.=")

Outside of the ballroom. The wedding dinner is held at Parkroyal. It resemblence with Singapore's version.

Inside the ballroom.

Me and kp at the reception.

Scottish costume with a knife tuck at the socks (if you notice).

Here comes the reason for everyone arrival today.

At the stage.

Toast time!

Yaaaammm SING!

Grandma, Ker Ching and cousin.

Hahaha... me and kp again.

Everything was great that day. Weather is ok, no rain, no jam, and the food is okay.

Hope the newly wed couple will have a happy marriage for many years to come. 

Congratulation Ker Chea and Khong Wah!

Valentine's Days 2009

I did a post on Valentines Days last year, this is the second post =)

We have gone through this special days for four times. It's been my luck to have KP by my side for these few years. I enjoy her company and we can communicate within the same wavelength. I believe this is something that doesn't come by easily.

This year we went to Changkat Bukit Bintang, TwentyOne. I was a bit scared that this place will turn out to be a big let down because i was able to get a booking few days before the v day. One of my colleague tried few restaurants and all of them is fully booked. But it's nice from the picture, so i just go ahead.

The place turn out to be okay. Nice deco, good ambience, good service, decent food (but portion a bit small). Not much people dining there even when we left, maybe because it's classified as Kitchen and Bar. It's kinda place that you go hang out and have a few drinks. Recommended if you wanna have a few drinks with your friends. 

Here's some snap. 

This is nice. Juicy and tender.

Appertiser.

Updates Updates!!

Whoa.... seems like i've abandon my blog for quite some time. let me count, 1.. 2.. 3... omg... 12 months! (1 YEAR?). probably i just being lazy or too busy to blog. Maybe both.

Okay... should i write a longgg... entry to put in all the updates? nah.... maybe just some important one.

I moved to a new company at the end of last year and been busy right after that cuz i've been station to overseas (Singapore) for several months. Alots of catch up need to be done at work. Can't come back to see my family, KP, and friends. I've ended stucked there for about 4 month in total *sigh*. Pretty bored over there with not much friends and a CAR! not to say the MRT is bad over there, but it's just different :D
Right now it's pretty quite stable down on my work. Getting used to the way its being operated.

There's another thing that i've moved. My house in March. Ha ha.... moving so many things... luckily not my gf :p
Moved to same neighbourhood also ... not far from my previous house. Not more than 100 steps from Endah Parade Taxi stand. Supposed to moved in Febuary before chinese new year, but the renovation can't make it. so, like that lor.... Had a house warming roughly 2 months after i moved in. Besides my relatives, thx to KP, Wilson, Mei Kar, Tat Wai, Mei Fong, Fatt Wai for coming and your presents :)

Hmm... what else... aiyah...can't think now. Will con't back posting :) Till the next post.

It's time to move on.

Changes happen in our life and life still goes on no matter what. Sometimes when you can't have it your way, you just have to learn to accept it.

It's time to move on.

Dark Day

Sometimes there's things in life that are inevitable no matter how much you do not want it to happen.

Logical solution to it seems hard to accept as our feeling refused it.

It does not matter now whose fault it was as there's no measurement of right or wrong in it.

But when we remind ourself what we truly want, suddenly we seems to know what's the right thing to do.

Just find what you truly desire, and that's what i wanted.

你很爱他

I've always wanted to learn a chinese song and sing it together with my guitar, but never had the time and chance to do it. This is the song that captured my heart when i listen to it. Yes it's one of the song inside the CD you burn for me (it's still in my car cd player, listening to it every day). It took me some practice before i be able to pronounce the words close to the exact one. Not easy for those who do not know how to speak mandarin. But i've tried my best. I've copied down the lyric also.

I think this would be the only and last time i'll be doing this. Hope you would listen to it. This song is for you.

uploaded to www.yousendit.com, this link only work for 7 days.
http://download.yousendit.com/69E9E30E61D7118E

你很爱他
Ni Hen Ai Ta

主唱Sang by: F.I.R
作曲Song written by : 阿沁
作词Lyrics by : 阿沁
Translated by : athlynn17


当你决定
Dang ni jue ding
When you decide

你要离开我
Ni yao li kai wo
You want to leave me

我没有说什么
Wo mei you shuo shen me
I didn’t say anything

就当作你自由
Jiu dang zuo ni ji you
I’ll just leave it as your freedom

有好几次我都想忘了
You hao ji ci wo dou xiang wang le
Sometimes I just want to forget

苦酒也没有用
Ku qiu ye mei you yong
Alcohol will do me no good too

就当作是寂寞
Jiu dang zuo shi ji mo
I’ll just leave it as loneliness

只有我能明白
Zhi you wo neng ming bai
Only I can understand

他的温柔
Ta de wen rou
Her gentleness

对你是种解脱
Dui ni shi zhong jie tuo
It’s a way to break free

其实要告诉我
Qi shi yao gao su wo
Actually you want to tell me

只是你的最爱
Zhi shi ni de zui ai
She’s the one you love most

其实你很爱他
Qi shi ni hen ai ta
Actually you love her very much

对我的惩罚
Dui wo de cheng fa
It’s a punishment to me

说你没有想他
Shuo ni mei you xiang ta
You said you’re not thinking of her

谁可怜我吧
Shi ke lian wo ba
Who’s gonna pity me?

我也没有借口
Wo ye mei you jie kou
I don’t have any excuses as well

只能放手
Zhi neng fang shou
I can only let go

不敢奢求
Bu gan she qiu
Don’t dare to ask

你说爱我
Ni shuo ai wo
For you to say you love me

其实你很爱他
Qi shi ni hen ai ta
Actually you love her very much


他很温柔吗
Ta hen wen rou ma
Is she gentle?

其实你很想他
Qi shi ni hen xiang ta
Actually you miss her very much

就说出口吧
Jiu shuo chu kou ba
Why don’t you just say it out?

我也不想多说
Wo ye bu xiang duo shuo
I don’t wanna say too much now

捂朵
Wu kou duo
Seal your lips

不想再次听到你说
Bu xiang zai ci ting dao ni shuo
I don’t wanna hear you say it again


你很爱他
Ni hen ai ta
You love her very much

你很爱他
Ni hen ai ta
You love her very much

Farewell on Valentine's Day

In these modern days sometimes we celebrate events without even knowing the reason why it exists in the first place. It's like the story of monkeys in the cage (if you heard bout that, never mind if you don't). I'm one of those people and overheard why Valentine's day exist from the radio. Basically St. Valentine is a priest who refused Roman Emperor Claudius 2's law ordering young men to remained single so that they'll become better soldier. Valentine however covertly perform marriage ceremony for young catholic men and been sentenced to death by the Emperor after it's been found out. Full story here.

This year Valentine's day is a bit special for me. It's my farewell day to my beloved colleagues as i'll be leaving them (ahem, *to a new company*). Though it's just a short period with them, they treat me very good and supportive though sometimes some of them tend to behave abnormally (you know who am i talking about). Really have fun during my tenure here.

Sometimes things doesn't enough with just that. A lot of other aspects has it shares of important. I'm regret that things didn't worked out and have to move on. But at least i got the chance to know these great peoples. Hope we can have the chance to work together again in the future!

Some photos taken during (me + Bee Leng) farewell + Kenny birthday lunch at Hanabi.


With Chooi, one of the most discipline person that i knew.


this lunch celebrate together with Kenny(in middle) birthday which falls on Valentine's Day eve. Happy Birthday dude!


(l-r). Wynn (do not mess with her or you'll face the unpredictable!) and Kenny my good neighbour who kept me out of bored all the time. Appreciate that.


(l-r). Chim, very supportive PM and taught me a lots of things. and Ritchie.


(l-r). Derick our department VP and Rathi.


(l-r). Michelle (used to be my senior in APIIT) and Kong our new team head.


The whole bunch.

For better or worst, this is the decision i've made after a thorough considerations. Thanks a lot and love you guys!

ps: thanks for the delicious lunch!